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I travelled for 3 months with half the time with a friend and half the time solo throughout Europe while my partner was back home… I didn't cheat, I didn't want to cheat… and I met a bunch of other solo travellers in the same position! I think having the trust to be able to solo travel while in a relationship is amazing and can actually help a relationship flourish as you get to be your own person for a while and remember what its like to do things on your own. Cheating is not the norm, regardless of where you are in the world… most people are still pretty respectful of there partners… and if they aren't maybe they didn't actually want to be with there partner anyway.
I met my partner on holiday and two years later we living together been 7 years now.
I would only travel with my fella! Defo wouldn't want to go without him, it wouldn't be the same
umm.. im kind of shocked that you would think that cheating when on holiday is automatic. i study in the netherlands while my boyfriend lives in belgium, but this doesn't mean that im gonna start hooking up with every guy i see. it's possible to see guys as friends, not just as potential hookups
you have so many people who watch your videos so don't going around saying this bullshit about how you can't go on holiday and not hook up. sorry for having a go at you, like your videos are nice and everything, but still
I was disappointed by this video too, all the laughing about people in relationship that go travelling solo and are supposedly the exception if they don't cheat on their partner… really? Maybe it's a lack of experience in commited relationships? I'm a woman, have been with my partner for 9 years (and a half to be precise ;P), he's more of a homebody and doesn't go on nights out often without me and has never travelled alone. I however have travelled solo lots of time since we've been living together, and flirting with other guys while travelling (let alone sleeping with them…) has never crossed my mind 😮 I think it's a real shame that you said that, because it won't encourage people to travel or do anything on their own if their boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife can't/won't join them. It's so sad already to see people feel trapped in their relationship. Your significant other should make you feel free, not caged. What a shame.
So that emotional bonding during new experiences thing is why people take honeymoons?
For that to go down they would have to speak to
Well, it depends on how long you travel for, doesn't it? I feel like if you're talking about someone going solo travelling for 6 months or more or becoming a professional "traveller" and going off on holidays all the time, then, yeah, I can get the advice "be single." But if we're just talking about one person going travelling for a few weeks…? It's not hard to not cheat. Not everyone is into casual sex.
haha I went to Alaska and was staying in this one town for a good amount of time and I ended up getting this cute boys social media, I was obviously flirting the entire time and turns out he has a long term girlfriend!
Loved all the stories about your travel experiences but I feel like you totally portrait travelling solo while in a relationship wrong. My best friend is in a relationship but her boyfriend doesn't want to travel and we've been on soooo many trips together and she's travelled solo as well and has never hooked up with anyone! If you love your partner and don't WANT to cheat on them, you won't cheat on them 😀 It's all about who you are and HOW your relationship works and how much you respect the other person. Maybe the people you met are more prone to hooking up in general or weren't as happy or in more open relationships idk. Point is, you can 100% travel without cheating and I feel like you made everyone who's partner likes to travel solo feel really freaked out by saying that they'll cheat 🙁 It really just depends on the person 😉
Like others have said, I completely disagree that you can't be in a relationship and go solo travelling. If you are committed to the other person you're not going to cheat on them just because you're on holiday. Also, shock horror, you can still have fun travelling without having a holiday fling. There are so many other things people find value and fun in while travelling, not just hooking up. I've had a fee friends in committed relationships go travelling by themselves because maybe their partner can't take time off or they don't like travelling (weird but yes they exist too) or my friend just wants some me time. I think it's healthy to do solo travelling even if you're in a relationship, not because you're looking to hook up with someone new, but so you can just be with yourself and get to know yourself better.
Sorry Hannah, I really love yours videos but I think this was a really ignorant and narrow view for you to have.
It's really not a problem not to cheat on your partner… and if it's a problem, then you're with the wrong person. Or most likely you're the wrong person for your partner. Let them go and be free and then do whatever you want. But do not lie.
I would love to be Hannah's holiday fling
I was working in Ireland for a university internship, kind of like an Erasmus, and I met a guy and now we've been together for 6 months and a half 🙂 it's easy to stay connected and I "see" him everyday, but I have to say I miss him a lot when I'm not with him, but when love is there, you make it work! I'm Italian btw 🙂
omg two of my favourite YouTubers.HOW DID I NOT SEE THIS VIDEO UNTIL NOW?!
I gotta say, the main thing i take away from all of hannah's video's is, She Loves The D! and fair play to her for being open and honest about it.
Omg I've started to bingewatch your video's the last couple of days & come to several conclusions: 1. You are awesome2. I'm suuuper interested in sexuality & gender (second part I already knew) and I want to learn everything about it & maybe even do something with it in the future3. Yellow looks amazing on you
I met somebody on holiday at 21, now 8 years later and we are getting married in a few months!
This girl in red sweater has pretty breasts, yami :p
So Christy and I met in ……
This video was so negative to people who travel solo while in a relationship and I notice you haven’t responded to all the comments saying this. Having to unsub.
Ride that carrousal ladies, the wall approaches…
I actually saw this video already when it came out. Now that my vacation fling just ended I came back to this. Thanks for the advice!
This video is so relatable! Met a boy working abroad for 2 months then came home and he was still out for another month. Once he was home he ended things. Still sad about it but this made me feel so much better about it!
Meeting someone when home on break from (far away) college is similar, it's hard to expect more than a fling because it will be many months until you can see each other in person again. The internet really does help stay in touch/closure though, and the possibility of meeting again can be exciting for both.
Jeez must be a pretty people thing lol. I've never traveled and found someone. Also you can travel solo while in a relationship and not cheat. That should be easy or you shouldn't be in that relationship in the first place.
How can I find girls to have flings with? How can I tell which girls want to jump into bed with someone new?
I'd love to have a holiday fling with Hannah.
I met my husband while traveling in Scotland 10 years ago. Today is our 9 year wedding anniversary! 🙂
My travel fling in Zante Greece 13 years ago is still happening and we have two children together. Plus we just got engaged this year! Best holiday fling ever
I had a backpacker romance fling traveling during Christmas! I met this guy at the hostel bar in Vienna a day before Christmas eve, and he got a long with the group I was traveling with… so the next day we went to Budapest for Christmas eve, we had a great time, and he surprised us in the hostel in Budapest so we spend the Christmas eve night talking in the rooftop of the hostel… and next day went Ice skating! Then we said goodbye and talked for a bit in messenger and then we just said goodbye!! ♥️ But it was not a bad ending like we knew it would only be a fling but it's nice to find some guy that you can connect with for some little time while traveling the unknown!
There is a very common intellectual fault in people when they look at other people;The right imagines everyone has a role in the world and they can find it and the left imagines anyone can do anything. Both assumptions are wrong.Both men and women assume there's someone for everyone and everyone can make someone else happy and similarly find someone who can make them happy. These assumptions are similarly wrong.Mr Darwin was, however, right….
who came here to see her boobs?
I feel like emotions are heightened and things are so much more intense because it's so fleeting and you're usually in a magical place and it's so romantic. Like you barely know each other but you are immediately in love and obsessed and it's a whirlwind, but I think if you were to try to date in the real world it would be so disappointing. And I think there's something kind of cool about going all in for those few days or weeks or whatever, because then you can just cleanly move on. I've had three holiday flings that were amazing, but I'm glad they didn't go further. No regrets.
Romance doesn’t necessarily involve sex.
Keep sleeping around in your 20s if you want to be single in your 30s and forever. Women should stop trying to convince each other that being easy is empowering. It lowers the value of sex so men don't care about keeping you. These behaviors will end in tragedy.
A very interesting topic and a much needed attention and dialogue needs to be discussed on this platform. I like your example/story Kristy.
Yeah this video confirms what I thought. You're not "sex positive".
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